“You are inextricably interdependent, always part of the wholeness, and one with all other life. Trust the foreign; it’s just a hidden part of you in another guise and form.”
~ James Wanless
Why not take on the role of neutral explorer, my friend? Neutral explorers are observers, looking for similarities and differences without judging. They don’t ask, “Is this good or bad?” Instead they ask, “How might this relate to me? How might it fit in with the big picture?”
But whatever approach you take, please know that everything serves a purpose and, in one way or another, serves the higher good for both you and life on planet Earth. And yes, my friend, that means even the horrible things you or others experience. There will somehow be some good that comes from it. Trust in this.
There is always more that remains to be seen and understood.