“All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, it will not change you.”
~ Dr. Wayne Dyer
At the root of all the anger, frustration, betrayal, etc., that we feel about someone else is some way in which we’ve let ourselves down. Underneath it all, whether we’re conscious of it or not, we’re really angry or frustrated with ourselves. But we blame them because we don’t have the understanding and haven’t taken the time to figure out the true cause of our disappointment.
Here’s how it works, my friend. The world constantly reflects back to you the energy and dynamics that you are generating and emanating from within. So the only way you can change the experiences you’re having with others is to first change what you’ve got going on inside.
And you know, my friend, your internal world is really all you ever have control of anyway.