“There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.”
~ William Shakespeare
We think, we label, we decide, we define, and thereby we create. Have you noticed the connection? Have you studied which is the actual cause and which the effect? It may not be as you first might think, my friend.
Notice what happens when you change your mind, or try on a new perspective.
How many different perspectives can you view from? Notice how each new viewpoint you try on widens the possibilities. Are you really sure things are as you think? Absolutely, positively sure?
Why not allow yourself to remain open to all possibilities? Or even better yet, why not use your imagination to envision an outcome you’d love? Powerful people decide that every loss they experience bears a gift of something of equal or greater value and they begin looking for those possibilities immediately. Hmmm… I wonder what it could be…
One thing is for sure, my friend, viewing life from that perspective feels a whole lot better than being a victim.