The Dalai Lama’s response when asked at a public appearance why he didn’t fight back against the Chinese:
“Well, war is obsolete, you know.” Then he paused and said, “Of course the mind can rationalize fighting back… but the heart, the heart would never understand. Then you would be divided in yourself, the heart and the mind, and the war would be inside you.”
~ The Dalai Lama
With unity comes peace, whether within ourselves or between ourselves and others. However, being that we don’t have control over others thoughts and actions, we must focus on ourselves and strive first for unity within.
But like he says, since the mind can rationalize anything, finding that peace of mind within isn’t so easy. You have to bring your mind into alignment with your heart.
Just know, my friend, the only true path to peace comes with listening to and following your heart.